Today we spent most of the day in and out of the garden. I get a bit of a bee in my bonnet from time and kind of drive everyone like a mad-woman so that it gets blitzed. My husband would much prefer doing things a little bit at a time but he tends to leave the clean up so long that it ends up being a blitz regardless!
Suffice it to say, we all have blisters on top of blisters now and the 3 kids are paralysed with agonised backs and necks, moaning and groaning about the place (I think the words "slave driver" and "isn't this a democracy"? may be echoing around...) I have been thinking (whilst toiling) about how much 'work' has changed over the past decade or even century.
Whilst our great-great grandparents worked within the local kilometre or so, they worked the land and toiled daily to provide the very basics - food, water and shelter. Owning a cow or goat was a luxury and showed wealth. They worked themselves to death often, and their lives were simple and plagued by illnesses and strife, war and struggles.
Tick forward to our grandparents who worked within the local 10-20km radius, worked on the land sometimes and within towns otherwise. They were bankers and farmers, bakers and homemakers and so on. Some things had remained the same though - they worked hard, often at more than one job - to provide the basics of food, water and shelter as well as the occasional luxury of a family holiday in the caravan/tent or a car if they were very lucky. They died on average at the age of 50-60 and yet were plagued by illnesses and strife, war and struggles.
Then, if we move onto my own parents' generation and they worked within a 25-50km radius of their own home which was owned by the time they were in their 50's, they worked at any job they wanted to, unrestricted by the gender, race, beliefs or age, they were able to study for free, work hours that they chose and they were able to save and buy most things that they desired from televisions to video recorders, Walkman, DiscMan, computers, the first mobile phones (the 'brick') and so on. They worked hard to provide the basics of food, water and shelter but now they were also distracted by family holidays, holiday homes, multiple cars in one family and trips to Europe if they were lucky. They died on average at the age of around 65-70 and were able to receive quadruple bi-pass surgery, hip replacements, kidney transplants and yet were still plagued by illnesses and strife, wars (though in other countries now) and personal struggles.
So for us and the Y-gen, why would we think it could be any different? We can study for as little or as long as we desire, in fact, there are many people of my parents' generation who are still getting their degree at Uni part time! We are able to amass huge personal debt from interest free student loans, maxed out credit cards, car loans, mortgages or 2, a new mobile phone (Android/iPhone), iPad, iPod, laptop and so on. We have the world at our fingertips and we desire travel and experiences beyond the beaten track. We are willing to do anything to have anything and the next best fix is the next 'must have'. But...we still have to provide the basics for ourselves such as food, water and shelter and the world is still filled with illness and strife, wars and struggles.
So, toiling in the garden to make the house look nice has not guaranteed that we have food to eat nor has it provided our family with shelter. But, for a short day we have remembered what every day would have been like several generations ago. And we have realised that we would much rather exist in what seems to be an easier lifestyle! However, there is still much to learn from what happened in the past to get us here. Each generation have learnt something from the last generation and this will be the case for every one to come.